What have you been up to????

So we've been in school for over a month now and it hasn't been the most enjoyable experience. I figured I'd have to be a "hands on Mom" when it came to Fro's schooling, but this is ridiculous. You know the saying, "You can never go back", well whoever said it did not have kids. I was called the second week of school to take Cloe home, I believe it was around 8:30 in the morning, school starts at 8:05! Her major offense was running away from the teacher. I refused to take her home, as I explained to the principal it was rewarding her behavior, so I gave them two options 1) I sat in the class room with her to reinforce what the teacher did or 2) I take over the principals office, they supply me with the curriculum for the day and I teacher her there. Luckily they picked option one. It's gone down hill from there and we are at the point of figuring out which school she will be transferred too, by my request.

Her Dr. had us fill out the Conner's questionnaire, it's used to diagnose AD/HD. When we went to the appointment for him to give us the results he informed me that he didn't even evaluate the teachers questionnaire because it was so negative it wouldn't give us any usable results. I have to say I felt vindicated with that statement, I seriously thought I was going crazy and Fro truly was the spawn of the devil! She has been diagnoses with AD/HD and we are seeing a councilor who thinks she may have Aspergers syndrome in addition to the AD/HD. What an adventure we are on!!!!! The good news is we are getting some answers and we have the option to change her schools, I just feel she has been so negatively labeled she will not get a fair shot at her current school!

Wasn't sending our kids to school suppose to give us a little break and not be so difficult?????

Life is pretty exhausting right now, and I thought I didn't sleep when I was in school!!!!! We're working through it though. I really like her councilor and she seems to like her too. We have a big meeting this Wednesday with people from the district, including the superintendent and the district director of special education as well as myself and her councilor so we'll see what happens.

I hate to say it but that's pretty much been life for the last month. I am on information overload and had to take two mental health day's to recover. O.k. I only planned one, that was bamboozled when Fro was suspended, so I made up for it a little when my car decided to blow a spark plug and had to be fixed! The nice thing is that bad things happen in three's so I should be good for a really long time! Oh, my kitchen facet had to be replaced after giving me a shower and I as trying to do dished Tuesday night! Life is an adventure!!! :)

Anyway, Fro is showing no scares at this point, which is good. I plan on getting her into a new school before we see any. It's pretty exhausting for her. As you can see from the picture below she was so tired one night she couldn't even get up to turn off the light, all she could do was reach for the bowl she was playing with earlier (don't ask me why she was playing with it) to make it dark enough for her to go to sleep!

1st Day of School

It's hard to believe that summer is basically over, the high tomorrow is only 63 degrees, I may need to pull out my winter coat!!! :) And with the end of summer comes the first day of school. Fro is now in kindergarten, how time has flown, I swear she was three only yesterday.

The build up to school wasn't much, the only difference from her pre-school was that she got to take her new yellow back pack to her new school. We both have survived the first week, she started on Tuesday. We parked the car and were walking across the street and we had the following conversation.

Cloe: Mom you can go back to the car, you are just dropping me off.
Me: Well, I want to walk you to your new class room.
Cloe: No mom, you need to go back to the car, I can go myself
Me: But mommy needs to make sure you get to you class o.k.
Cloe: You're going to be late for work mom, look at your watch (as she points the it) you're going to be late!
Little Miss independent!

She did finally give in so I did walk her to meet her class. They had all the kids assemble outside on the play ground so they had music playing and the principal was encouraging everyone to dance! It was fun. Anyway the time came and all the kids were to line up with their teacher, and the parents were to stand off to the side. Pictures were being taken (see below) and kisses were given. I stepped back a little way to make room for other parents and Fro so sweetly said to one of them, "You're standing in my mom's way"! Wonder if she'll try comedy out as a career or if she'll just be the class clown. All the parent around us were laughing. Good thing she's so cute!

So far we really like her teacher, and we got our first night of homework done and turned in! I'm really excited about this year and she seems to be as well, so far she is excited every morning and we haven't had the whole separation anxiety yet. The only thing for me is, I can't believe I have a kindergartener!!!!!

You will also notice that Fro has a new hair style for the new school year. We finally had enough of the fights to comb and fix her hair so one morning I told her, fine we would go to the beauty salon after work and cut her hair. I forgot all about it until we were on our way home and she announced that we still had to go get her hair cut! It's so much easier now, and I still think she looks so cute!

My little poser!

Standing in line waiting to go to class

Fro and Mom

(We're #1)

5 Yr Up-Date

Yesterday we went to our favorite pediatrician for Fro's five year check up (yes we are a little late). Anyway, for those who haven't seen her lately she is now 48 inches (yes that is four feet!!!!) and 64.1 lbs. Needless to say she is in the >97% on both height and weight, though she is in proportion so we aren't worried. She is a strong little girl too, it took me and two nurses to hold her down for her shots! We are all done, until next year so the trauma has passed.

I just can't believe she'll be starting kindergarten in less than a month. How crazy is that! I know I'm gonna be in for some fun because she had another interesting conversation with Debbie, the Pre-school director. A few day's ago the kids wanted to go for a walk and in order to do so each child had to hold onto the rope, well Fro decided she didn't want to hold on to the rope so she had to stay at pre-school with Debbie, and their conversation went like this:

Debbie: "Cloe why aren't you going for a walk with your friends?"

Cloe: "My friends don't want me to go, and I'm going to have nightmares about it."

WHAT????!!!!!

When the kids and teachers got back Debbie pointed out to Fro that her friends were back and she again announced that they didn't want her to go and she will have nightmares about it!

Can you imagine what she will be like as a teenager??!! I am in soooooo much trouble!

The Joys of HR

When I went into HR I figured I'd have to do my fair share of firing, ya know, performance issues, failed drug screens, attendance, drinking on the job. Well this week I can add bouncer to my resume because I had to throw out my very first drunk! Some guy, more than likely a vagrant, somehow climbed into our warehouse through one of the bay doors, the tall ones that semi-trucks back up into to deliver or pick up merchandise, and began wondering through the warehouse. Either my janitor stopped him or he stopped my janitor, who happens to be from Somalia and speaks only a few words in English, favorite phases are "I am fine" and "No good". Anyway this guy stopped my employee and tried to communicate with him, in his drunken stupor, it was kind of funny. Good thing I work for a manufacturing plant and I have a lot of big, tough, beefy guys to back me up and assist me in these fun little duties! I have to admit that my job is never boring, frustrating and infuriating yes, but boring NO!!!!!! :)

Gymnastics

Our latest adventure was to enroll Fro in gymnastics at "The Little Gym". It's such a cute little place, and all the teachers are fabulous. Fro had a little bit of a hard time at the beginning of each class because she wanted to skip the stretching and go straight to the equipment. I think her favorite thing to do was the uneven bars, she didn't like to turn around, she just loved to swing. :) Anyway this Saturday was her last class and they have a performance for all the parents for this last class, each kid gets a turn to show off their skills on the balance beam, the uneven bars and the floor. It was so cute. At the end each kid got a "shiny gold medal" as Fro calls it. She was really happy to get it, but didn't want to stand around and wait for everyone else to get their medal, and wasn't too happy when she had to go back up to the "podium" so we could take all their pictures, as you can see. It's been fun watching her learn the different skills and see her excited to "go to practice". We had to run some errand after her class and she had to show everyone her shiny gold medal. She's very proud of it.

Showing off!

My little poser!

I can't get the video I took to load, so I may just have to e-mail it out for anyone who wants to see it.

Is it summer????

For any one who has forgotten, I strongly dislike the cold, so when Fro was asking in February to paint a bird house I couldn't wait until it started to get warm again. I don't know where she got the idea but every time we passed a craft store, JoAnn Fabric, Hobby Lobby, Michael's she would always bring it up. Well, I finally gave in and we spent a Saturday afternoon skillfully painting the bird house, getting it ready for it's new owner, who ever they may be. Fro had a blast, and thanks to washable and fume free paints, so did I.

My little angle!

Finishing up the roof.

What I thought was the finished project

Now, the finished project.

No one has claimed this as their home as of yet, Fro has to bring it in every night! Just can't let go! :)

Somethings NEVER change :)

So in April, yes last month, my Mom celebrated her ?? birthday and my sister thought what a great idea if we all went to Montana and surprised her. So we made the 14 hr trek to Stevensville to celebrate! Mom, love ya, but never again in April. How quickly we forget how COLD it stays in Montana until July. We left 70 degree weather to spend a week in snow, rain, and 40 some degrees.

While we were there we took all the kids to the park. Ya gotta love small towns! I was looking around at the playground equipment and believe it or not the same slide that I played on when I was around Fro's age is still there, and still the only one to play on. They still had the same tractor (minus a steering wheel) and the same tractor tires, though they have been painted. How funny! The kids had fun. Anyway, over a month later we have thawed out, recovered from the driving and are looking forward to doing it all over again, preferably in Tahiti!

Fro on the tires, I can't believe I didn't take a picture of the slide! I guess I was in some level of shock that it was still standing!